Hedy’s Blog
From Caregiver to Care-partner
One Sunday afternoon, I was speaking with a good friend on Zoom and we shared screens to look at my website. Something was there, but it was not my beautiful web site. It was unreadable, and the pages didn’t work, and my heart sank. When it happened, because I don't know anything about websites,...
A Question for our Time: What if Donald Trump and Joe Biden Were a Couple?
After the first presidential debate on September 29, 2020, I received many messages that said: “Hedy, how about teaching them to cross the bridge?” People know that for over 30 years, I have guided people in relationships to experience the most alive and joyful connection with each other. Suddenly...
Don’t Fight the Darkness. Instead—Bring the Light
A friend asked me, “Here in the US, it seems that we are on the brink of massive darkness, and I would love to know, how do we navigate this very difficult time?" In another blog post, I wrote about the importance of each of us staying in our own lanes and doing what we can do. For me, what’s...
OPPORTUNITY IN CRISITUNITY: FIND YOUR LANE AND DO WHAT YOU CAN DO
Like so many others, I have been wondering: “What else can I do at this vital time?” And, I have been asking myself: “Am I doing enough?” And then the Kosher Choreographer (my nickname for G-d) placed this message from the poet, Lindsay Young on my desk…
One Paradigm Shift—on the Eva’s Relationship Pillow Podcast
Eva Berlander and I had a quite beautiful conversation about development, transformation and the paradigm shift, as well as how we owe so much to our teachers and those who came before us.
Building Your Relationship Through Relational Maturity—on the Thrive with Dr. D Podcast
In this beautiful conversation that Dorianne Weil and I had for her podcast, we discuss relational maturity, disconnection from our partners during the pandemic when all of us may feel a little too close (physically) to them, and how to navigate this time which can be quite challenging…