A Question for our Time: What if Donald Trump and Joe Biden Were a Couple?

After the first presidential debate on September 29, 2020, I received many messages that said: “Hedy, how about teaching them to cross the bridge?” People know that for over 30 years, I have guided people in relationships to experience the most alive and joyful...

From Caregiver to Care-partner

One Sunday afternoon, I was speaking with a good friend on Zoom and we shared screens to look at my website. Something was there, but it was not my beautiful web site. It was unreadable, and the pages didn’t work, and my heart sank. When it happened, because I...

Don’t Fight the Darkness. Instead—Bring the Light

A friend asked me, “Here in the US, it seems that we are on the brink of massive darkness, and I would love to know, how do we navigate this very difficult time?” In another blog post, I wrote about the importance of each of us staying in our own lanes and doing...

Building Your Relationship Through Relational Maturity—on the Thrive with Dr. D Podcast

In this beautiful conversation that Dorianne Weil and I had for her Thrive With Dr. D podcast, we discuss relational maturity, disconnection from our partners during the pandemic when all of us may feel a little too close (physically) to them, and how to navigate this...

This Being Human is a Guest House

Today I want to share with you Rumi’s generative metaphor of the human experience as a guest house. Learning about the guest house has been very important to us in our lives, and is important to all of us as we face the challenges in our world today. Our guest house...

What Happens When Your Parent Shows Up?

What does happen when a parent shows up in your relationship? Watch Tanya and Terry.  They are young. They are in love. And they are unaware of the hidden forces that fuel their Power Struggle. Watch as I teach them how to cross the bridge to reveal the underlying...