People sometimes smile when they hear me say that I had thirty husbands. The truth is, I only had one husband. His name was Yumi. And over the course of our life together, I came to realize that I had loved many different versions of him. Every time Yumi grew,...
Many years ago, I was working with a couple who could not seem to land with one another. The man lived primarily in his thoughts. The woman lived primarily in her feelings. They loved each other, but whenever they tried to connect, they seemed to miss each...
One Sunday afternoon, I was speaking with a good friend on Zoom and we shared screens to look at my website. Something was there, but it was not my beautiful web site. It was unreadable, and the pages didn’t work, and my heart sank. When it happened, because I...
After the first presidential debate on September 29, 2020, I received many messages that said: “Hedy, how about teaching them to cross the bridge?” People know that for over 30 years, I have guided people in relationships to experience the most alive and joyful...
A friend asked me, “Here in the US, it seems that we are on the brink of massive darkness, and I would love to know, how do we navigate this very difficult time?” In another blog post, I wrote about the importance of each of us staying in our own lanes and doing...
In this beautiful conversation that Dorianne Weil and I had for her Thrive With Dr. D podcast, we discuss relational maturity, disconnection from our partners during the pandemic when all of us may feel a little too close (physically) to them, and how to navigate this...
