Hedy’s Blog
Coping Versus Living
I learned the distinction between Coping and Living from my mother Miri Muszkal (may her memory be a blessing). Someone in our weekly Club Memory poetry group (now done on the phone) said to me: “Hedy, you are so positive.” And I said: “I am thanking my mother for it. She taught me to live instead of cope.”
So That Our Souls can Catch Up With Us!
In this significant time of not-knowingness, I wanted to post some thoughts and resources that have made a nourishing difference for me, in the hopes that they in turn might be helpful and nourishing for you…
What if you had a Reset Button? Two Secrets About Happiness
“You have a wonderful happiness re-set button,” a friend told me when I described to her how high my spirits are in our new life…
Is it Possible to Fall Back in Love With Your Partner?
The answer is an emphatic “Yes!” In this video, I explain why.
Gratitude Creates A Bridge To Abundance
Yumi’s and my understanding of the Language of Abundance started for us twenty-five years ago. We were exploring the Relational Paradigm, and discovered Appreciative Inquiry, an organizational methodology. We learned the importance of “languaging” and the distinction between the Language of Deficit and the Language of Abundance. A basic principle we were inspired by is that the sound and meaning of words leave a profound subconscious impact on us. And we can choose to create language that fits us vibrationally, so that we unleash our energy and imagination. For example, listen to the difference between “life is a problem to be solved,” and “life is an adventure to be lived.”
I am in radical gratitude for the inspiration of our ongoing learning…
Basic Assumptions about Committed Conscious Relationships
Many years ago, we began introducing couples to basic assumptions about committed conscious relationships. I want to share them with you here, so that they can begin to make a difference in your own relationships…