Hedy’s Blog
Is it Possible to Fall Back in Love With Your Partner?
The answer is an emphatic “Yes!” In this video, I explain why.
Gratitude Creates A Bridge To Abundance
Yumi’s and my understanding of the Language of Abundance started for us twenty-five years ago. We were exploring the Relational Paradigm, and discovered Appreciative Inquiry, an organizational methodology. We learned the importance of “languaging” and the distinction between the Language of Deficit and the Language of Abundance. A basic principle we were inspired by is that the sound and meaning of words leave a profound subconscious impact on us. And we can choose to create language that fits us vibrationally, so that we unleash our energy and imagination. For example, listen to the difference between “life is a problem to be solved,” and “life is an adventure to be lived.”
I am in radical gratitude for the inspiration of our ongoing learning…
Basic Assumptions about Committed Conscious Relationships
Many years ago, we began introducing couples to basic assumptions about committed conscious relationships. I want to share them with you here, so that they can begin to make a difference in your own relationships…
Why do we Wait to Make Productive Changes in our Lives?
I have been wondering lately about the “tap tap… Knock Knock… Bang Bang… CLOBBER CLOBBER” theory of life…
The Miracle of “Normal”
Now he looks at my eyes and gently touches my eye lids. “Babi over your eyes you have so much skin that when you open them there are many millions of wrinkles.” Meanwhile, I am loving the tender touch, the exploring eyes, the affectionate finger over my face, the sweetness of the exchange. I am over the bridge in Leo’s world in the neighborhood called: The World is Full of Wonder for me to Explore…
May This Torah Be a Legacy for Your Family
This blessing was given to us by an American Airlines employee, after a challenging conversation about bringing a very big bag containing a sacred Torah scroll through security and into the airplane. The conversation turned from: “It is impossible!”, said stridently and conclusively, to an authentic, meaningful encounter…





