The couples who continue growing expand their curiosity. One of the greatest dangers to a long relationship is the quiet belief that we already know everything about one another. We finish each other’s sentences, anticipate each other’s reactions, assume...
One of the reasons I continue to love the metaphor of neighborhoods is that it reminds me of the beautiful complexity of every human being. Each of us has within us an expanding world that is made up of many different neighborhoods. Some neighborhoods hold our...
I have a story I want to tell from my childhood. A dear friend of my parents came to spend Shabbat with us. He was an activist, deeply committed to helping bring peace to a painful conflict in the world. As we sat around the table, he began speaking about all that was...
After the first presidential debate on September 29, 2020, I received many messages that said: “Hedy, how about teaching them to cross the bridge?” People know that for over 30 years, I have guided people in relationships to experience the most alive and joyful...
