Coping Versus Living

Coping Versus Living

I learned the distinction between Coping and Living from my mother Miri Muszkal (may her memory be a blessing). Someone in our weekly Club Memory poetry group (now done on the phone) said to me: “Hedy, you are so positive.” And I said: “I am thanking my mother for it....
Is it Possible to Fall Back in Love With Your Partner?

Is it Possible to Fall Back in Love With Your Partner?

My friend, the answer is an emphatic “Yes!” My video will explain what makes it so.  — 👉👉 Did you know that Hedy has an online community? It’s true! The Encounter-centered Community is a space for professionals from around the world who are passionate...
Gratitude Creates A Bridge To Abundance

Gratitude Creates A Bridge To Abundance

Roy Bennett, the author of The Light in the Heart, wrote this saying, and I’m learning just how true it is. Gratitude builds a bridge to abundance Yumi’s and my understanding of the Language of Abundance started for us twenty-five years ago. We were...
Basic Assumptions about Committed Conscious Relationships

Basic Assumptions about Committed Conscious Relationships

Many years ago, Yumi and I began introducing couples to basic assumptions about committed conscious relationships. I want to share them with you here, so that they can begin to make a difference in your own relationships. Our relationship IS our Tikkun* It is the...
The Magical Inner Elevator

The Magical Inner Elevator

These days my beloved Yumi resides firmly in the Lobby of his inner world. The metaphor of an elevator, which takes us from the Penthouse, to the Lobby, and to the Basement of our inner world, came to me one day as I was teaching a couple how to “cross the...
Creating Encounters Through Generative Listening

Creating Encounters Through Generative Listening

How do we get to the True Encounter? And what is the distinction between Conflict Resolution and Conflict Dissolution? I would like to share a story today that illustrates a special quality of listening which generates a true Encounter as well as Conflict Dissolution....