I was so fortunate to have been invited by Rebecca Wong to be on her wonderful Connectfulness Practice podcast. It was a joy to talk with her, and, what a listener she is! Rebecca is a relationship therapist who loves helping people get real and reconnected in their...
“It’s another one of the ways for me to love my man,” I said to the eye doctor. Yumi and I went to see the eye doctor because Yumi complained about having great pain in his right eye. Turns out his eye was very dry because it doesn’t close well. The doctor described a...
Yumi and I have discovered the rightness of these ten commandments in the “living laboratory” of our marriage and are honored to share them with you. Honor the Bridge There is an invisible bridge that connects us to our partner, and this bridge allows us...
“Help us!” says one of the sisters to my friend Penny following the 2016 election. “The conflictual division that has occurred since the elections has devastated our family emotionally,” says one of eight sisters in a family where there is a gap in the middle; four...
Most often we think of learning as a linear process. But there is another way to visualize learning. It is the Circular Learning model. According to the Circular Learning model we do not learn in a linear fashion, but rather in increasingly larger and larger circles....
“What is your Wildest Dream for your relationship?” I ask couples, as they settle into the Couple’s Journey Intensive with me. By “Wildest Dream” I do not mean “hope,” and I do not mean “a goal.” By “Wildest Dream” I mean the deepest aspiration of the soul. The...
